There were fears and rages and much more
To Eliezer Spetter,
What can I say? There were fears and rages and much more… and G-d sent you as His good emissary.
And you did all you could to ensure that it would all turn out right. It is written in the Psalms, “Those who sew in tears will reap in joy”. You invested more in me than I expected.
May G-d bless you who helped me to a better life. May He give you a long and calm life, and bless you in return for helping me.
And all this doesn’t reverberate in me any more…
With warmest greetings and love,
Another child, nine years old, was always very tense and restless. Now he is pleasant and relaxed. According to his mother, his studies are going well and he is like a different child. He used to have attacks of rage and loss of control; now he is a good child.
“How did you make progress using this treatment?”
“I made progress.”
“What happens now in the family, is that we pay more attention to what happens within the family.”
“And your happiness?”
“Calmer, less pressured by everything, now I’m not pressured at all. I used to suffer a lot from doubts; I also suffer less now from anger and am more patient. I have more control over myself.”
“And how is your relationship with your wife?”
As I underwent treatments with Eliezer, as we worked over the course of many sessions we managed to decrease traumas, which greatly improved my relationships with people, with my children. We were able to take down the virtual wall that was built up over years, and today I am a much more open person, a much happier person, and that isn’t dependent upon financial, physical or environmental conditions. I am much happier within, and I am prepared to accept any situation regardless of anything, of criticism, I can live with criticism, any conditions. This is all due to the work I did with Eliezer, which was mostly using the T.A.T. method. I can say that I succeeded in cleaning out all my childhood traumas. I strongly recommend this treatment method. Using this method I also was able to neutralize all my angers; today I feel, thank G-d, that I’m not angry with anyone. I’m able not to get angry and it doesn’t matter under what conditions.
I, Avraham, in my 40’s, I imagine my life is like most people’s: work, home, family, etc.
And like all people, I also have good periods and difficult periods in my life; situations that cause me happiness and joy – and the opposite: situations that cause anger, sadness, worry.
In addition, apparently due to something in my character, there are things that are important to me, and when things don’t happen as I’d like, it totally throws me off kilter. One minor example: orderliness at home was very important to me. I wanted everything to be in its proper place, and if I came home and found disorder, it made me angry inside and moody.
I tried to cope with these situations mostly by repression; that is, I didn’t solve the problems, I just ignored them, so that they didn’t affect my day-to-day life, until the problem occurred once again.
Using the TAT method, I succeeded in overcoming the situations that cause me anger and sorrow and learned to neutralize the feelings of anger, instead of pushing those negative feelings aside. I even became able to confront problems that I had repressed for many years, things that caused me great unhappiness when I confronted them; using this method I was able to neutralize the pain, sadness and difficulty.
This method gave me tools to cope with my daily life on all levels, with the big and little things, the things that cause me unhappiness, anger, or any other negative feelings that leave me feeling helpless or discontented. This method is an instrument that helps me cope with any situation, neutralize negative emotions, in each and every situation occurring in my life.
The advantage of this method is that you can learn how to use it on your own, without needing continuing professional guidance.
This method gives you useful tools that can be used at any time, like having an umbrella with you, at any moment you can open it and protect yourself from the rain.
I feel that since I decided to use this method, my life has changed extensively. I am much more contented; things that used to cause me depression or irritability – today I am able to confront them and smile – and I believe that all my family can testify that I have become “a different person”.
Family Friction, Anger, Closure
As I underwent treatments with Eliezer, as we worked over the course of many sessions we managed to decrease traumas, which greatly improved my relationships with people, with my children. We were able to take down the virtual wall that was built up over years, and today I am a much more open person, a much happier person, and one that isn’t dependent upon financial, physical or environmental conditions. I am much happier within and I am prepared to accept any situation regardless of anything, of criticism, I can live with criticism, any conditions. This is all due to the work I did with Eliezer, which was mostly using the T.A.T. method. I can say that I succeeded in cleaning out all my childhood traumas. I strongly recommend this treatment method. Using this method I also was able to neutralize all my angers; today I feel, thank G-d, that I’m not angry with anyone. I’m able not to get angry and it doesn’t matter under what conditions.
Overcoming Stresses and Becoming Communicative
To Eliezer Spetter!
During the last year, my husband had to deal with many difficulties at his place of work and in addition to that, his father was seriously ill. These difficulties caused a situation of almost complete detachment from the happenings at home and with his family. When he returned home, he wasn’t attentive at all and unable to pay attention to his children or his wife. Actually, it felt as if he was in a bitter and sad bubble all the time, and not one of us was able to break through it.
This situation obviously caused a lot of pressure and unnecessary anger at home. All attempts to suggest some kind of solution were met with a refusal by him that stemmed from the deep despondency he was in.
At some point, my husband decided to find the strength to get some kind of help and chose you. Immediately after the first meeting, I felt that something had changed. He spoke with me! Finally, we returned to having real discussions as we used to, not only the passing necessary information.
The frequent meetings with you didn’t change the existence of the difficulties, but they did give him good, effective methods to deal with them. The ability to cope and the understanding of what was happening to him brought him back home! He became once again the father involved with his children’s lives and a husband sensitive to my needs, too.
I thank you for this very much!
Suffering from anger
Thank you so much Chava Spetter,
From a young age, I suffered from anger and bad moods. I would spend all day, every day, being cross with someone and could think of nothing else. I would always vent my anger and frustration on the members of my family.
A friend of my mother’s who had undergone treatment with Chava Spetter recommended her, and my mother decided to take me to them for treatment. In a phone conversation, Chava asked if I believe in the technique and if I am willing to come for treatment.
At that moment I didn’t think that the treatment could help me, but I agreed to go anyway. I, too, was fed up living with all of the confusion inside of me.
During the first treatment I felt a strange feeling, something like a light dizziness and an internal release that I had never felt before. It was as though something had left my body.
I had four treatments with Chava. I feel that the treatment helped me and my family thinks so too. I’m not angry the whole time and don’t waste valuable time. I am usually very skeptic, but after this experience I believe that everything is possible.
Thank you so much,
Anger and Stress
I came to you angry and stressed, when everything angered me and aggravated me. After a series of treatments with TAT and an inquiry into the sources of the anger and stress, I feel much calmer today and the anger appears to be a thing of the past. In fact, the technique I learned helps me cope easily with life’s daily problems.
I wish to thank you for the uncomplicated and effective treatment.
My Life was Rules by Fear, Anger and Sadness
To Eliezer Spetter,
I would like to put pen to paper and express the feelings of esteem that I have for you and for the emotional healing that I have experienced with you, and to thank you for your willingness and efforts in my treatments and to heal all of the mental sickness that I experienced.
Throughout my childhood I suffered emotional and mental abuse from my parents. This brought about feelings of inferiority, fears, anxiety, anger and sadness. Outwardly everything seemed fine but deep down inside my feelings about myself were bad.
The main problem stemmed from my father who instilled negative beliefs and thoughts, as though the “the world is dangerous and against him”. My father was afraid of everyone and transmitted the same feeling to his children. Consequently, he was an angry person and all his family, including his wife and children, were afraid of him. He would repeatedly say “you won’t get on life – and if you do, you’ll eventually lose or someone will steal your success.” Bad feelings and anger were part of him, and this caused fights between the parents.
The fights and the anger caused instability in the home and serious problems to his wife and children.
I tried to find a solution, and after many years I found Eliezer. When I heard that the treatment “erased” childhood traumas, I was sure that this was an imaginary cure, but after the first meeting I realized that I had a chance to escape from the severe emotions that that I had been experiencing throughout my life.
After a few meetings with Eliezer, I noticed a far-reaching change in three emotional channels – fear, anger and sadness – and I began to shift from negative feelings about myself and my surroundings to a very positive position regarding myself, society and more.
I received positive feedback from those around me when they began to transmit appreciation, affection and even love.
It was simply unbelievable that the treatment could help me so quickly.
Now that I have finished the treatment I can see the light at the end of the tunnel – and the light is very bright. Since you gave me tools to deal with myself and with those around me, I am now able to function in a normative and normal manner. TAT is there for me when I need it.
Not everything is perfect yet and I have a lot of work to do for myself, but I have the acquired tools for that journey.
I can now testify that throughout most of the day I am happy and experience positive thoughts regarding myself and the world around me.
I would like to finish with thanks and esteem to you, Eliezer. Thank you for your warm attitude and for your professionalism in TAT and EFT.
Everything I have written is only a fraction of the esteem which your you truly deserve.
All of the anger and frustration just melted away.
I have never felt so at peace in my entire life.
I want to thank you for all that you did for me when I came to you for help recently. I’m a 57 year old man who had a difficult childhood involving abuse and other difficulties. A few years ago I found out that the man who raised me was actually not my biological father. Finding this out so late in life was quite devastating even though I suspected it for much of my life. It affected me more than I ever could have imagined. I grew up with a lot of rage and anger and have been able to overcome these emotions for most of my adult life. Finding out about my father stirred these emotions up in me once again. I needed someone to help me deal with these feelings welling up inside of me and you were able to do that for me. You were so patient and insightful. I knew that you practiced TAT, EFT and other modalities, but I always thought that they were worthless and not “real” therapies. I thought I would give you a chance to work with me since I had heard what a good practitioner you were and I certainly found out for myself that what I had been hearing was true. I now know that these modalities are very effective and very powerful. I’m so happy that you helped me open my mind to working with you. After only two sessions, something “gave way” inside of me and all of the anger and frustration just melted away. I have never felt so at peace in my entire life. Thank you, Eliezer, so much for giving me back my life.