Anxiety

Anxiety

I was in therapy for about a year and a half and also took pills but nothing helped.
 Depression, anger, sadness, thoughts, insecurity, fear, anxiety – today there is nothing left.

 

 Dear Eliezer.

 Words are not sufficient to thank God who sent me to you!

 In my youth, my family experience various traumas: my father had a car accident and a year later, at the age of 17, my brother was murdered by his children in his class. My family could not contain the terrible anguish, but I did not pay much attention to it. I thought that I was fine and I could get through it; I did not attribute any significance to these traumas.

 When I was about to graduate from high school, I decided that I wanted to sit and study our Holy Torah in yeshiva, but after three days, after a class in Jewish faith, everything exploded at once. I returned home with a river of bad, dangerous thoughts washing over me. Without life, vitality and the truth I saw no reason to live, so I went to various therapists but none of them were able to help me (treatments included CBT and EFT). I was in therapy for about a year and a half and also took pills but nothing helped.

 Only when I went to dear Eliezer, may G-d bless him with all the blessings, I felt wonderful from the first meeting. Something really was released me and I became a new person even though at first I really did not believe that it would really help – just like the other treatments I have written about. After several months with Eliezer I became a new person. Here are some of the things that have changed:

 A) After not being able to sleep well for three years, I now sleep like a baby with no disturbing thoughts.

 B) Anger with my parents – today we are on excellent terms.

 C) Depression, anger, sadness, thoughts, insecurity, fear, anxiety – today there is nothing left.

 D) Difficulty in learning Torah – now I am among the most diligent of the yeshiva students.

E) I now truly love myself.

F) I have discovered my inner self.

I can truly say that whoever wants to be absolutely cured of whatever is troubling him, the only person to cure him is Eliezer; if I managed to overcome all the things that I was suffering from, from being in the lowest depths to being raised to the heights that are now part of my life, everyone can succeed – and it is only with Eliezer. The warmth, attention and feeling that he is always at my side are invaluable.

Eliezer, I would like to bless with warmest blessings, that you will continue to help other people in distress.

Yours, Daniel.


I had terrible fears and anxieties , no self-esteem and self-confidence , now I have a new life

Dear Chava,

It has been almost six months since I finished my treatment. On that day I felt as though I had been born anew!

Everyone who knows me felt the change, and the most important thing is that I feel the change myself.

Before I met you and started treatment, I had terrible fears and anxieties. I did not trust anyone. Not even those closest to me. I shut myself away with my pain that through time had grown into a black ball inside of me – a ball took over my health and my soul. It took me away from those who were close to me, and did not permit me to bring new people into my life. My self-esteem and self-confidence hit an all-time low. I was very vulnerable and couldn’t trust myself.

Before I started TAT, I was very wary even though I had heard good things. I thought that it wouldn’t work for me – but I decided to try. Immediately after the first treatment I felt an enormous release – both emotionally and physically: I could suddenly breathe deeply again, something I had been unable to do for a long, long time.

Having seen one session was enough for the treatment to begin working, I decided to continue!

Over the course of treatment, I noticed changes both within myself and those around me. I felt more confident in myself and others, I allowed new people to enter my life, and began to trust my own judgement.

I won’t lie. There were times when it was very hard for me! Looking at yourself is not easy, but sometimes it is what is needed, and that’s how I felt. I felt I had to take care of the things kept me back and I could not have done it without Chava. It was not for nothing that I called her my “Wizard of Oz”! Chava has healed me and helped me realize the root of the problem, how to solve it and actually find out who I really am. She never gave up on me, even through the most difficult periods: she was always there for me, not leaving until the problem was resolved.

After my treatment, I started doing things I’d always wanted to but had not had the courage to undertake in the past. I am more open, talking about what bothers me. The therapy helped to understand what I have to release. There are things that have happened to me in the past and made me feel terrible, but after the treatment I am unable to remember the feelings. It is as though the memory has been obliterated.

I’m really happy that I decided to undergo the treatment. I recommend TAT to anyone who feels stuck – it does wonders.

I am eternally grateful that I was fortunate to get to know you and your unique, gentle and non-invasive technique. It helped remove layers of suffering and break down walls. Because of you I have a new life.

Chava! Thank you so much for helping me to see who I really am and to find the strength to cope.

And thank you for giving me the tools to cope in the future. I feel as though you saved my life.

Thank you.

With much love and admiration,


Anxiety about diseases

I was continually anxious regarding my health. Every single little pain caused thoughts about the worst possible scenarios and serious illnesses. With every little twinge I would run to the computer and search the net to read about the most horrifying things. The terror would paralyze me and I was unable to function. I was depressed, I was perpetually tired and had no desire to live or enjoy myself.

With Chava’s help, and through TAT, I was able to understand the root of the problem and to neutralize these thoughts – the fears simply vanished and seemed to belong to the distant past.

Even today, if I suddenly have troubling thoughts, I find a quiet place to do the exercises that Chava taught me and everything calms down again.

Today, Thank G-d, I am far more relaxed and happy. I am able to fill my days without thinking too much, I am less anxious and everyone at home feels the difference.

In the past, I would get up in the mornings, wouldn’t have time to get ready properly and could hardly drink anything, all due to my fears and anxieties. Now I get up happy, get organized, and even have time to pray before I leave for work, smiling and relaxed.

I have a baby. The fears used to take up all of my time, and I could hardly enjoy her. Now, thank G-d, I enjoy being with her and playing with her, and there are no troubling thoughts that enter my head. I can devote all of my spare time to her.

I would like to thank Chava for her devoted treatment and for the technique that undoubtedly changed my life. Thank you Hashem, He who cures all and who has faithful emissaries such as you in this world.

With much appreciation,


Terrible anxieties after I lost my mother

when I was six years old

Thank you, Eliezer

I came to you, frightened, suffering from terrible anxieties that would attack me and I was unable to cope with the situation. In the past I had undergone psychiatric treatment that did not help.

I lost my mother when I was six years old and that trauma, together with others that I gathered along the way, caused anxieties that appeared later (I am now thirty years old). I found you through the internet and was skeptic, but I was  willing to try anything so as to live differently.

From the first treatment onwards I felt freer, and when I came for my third visit the fears had dissipated and were not part of me any longerץ

Today I feel released, free. I am happy and enjoy life without being scared of it. I feel as though I received my life back because life with fears is not a proper life.

Thank you, Eliezer, for being who you are and for doing what you do. I feel obligated to tell my story and about TAT to others because there are people who live in dread and they have to know that there is an answer, an excellent answer.


Throughout my childhood I suffered emotional and mental abuse from my parents. This brought about feelings of inferiority, fears, anxiety, anger and sadness. Outwardly everything seemed fine but deep down inside my feelings about myself were bad…


Separation anxiety

I would like to share with you my feelings and also a certain episode that occurred during the second session that I had in TAT with Chava.

My name is Lilach, and I am 25 years old.

I came for treatment after being extremely impressed after reading a newspaper article about TAT. Since I suffer anxieties incapacitate me daily, I decided that I want, or should I say need, to take care of them and get rid of them forever. I decided to try this new technique.

I would like to say that I have already tried diverse techniques and treatments that all worked in different ways. I also approach each technique with the belief that, with G-d’s help, it will succeed.

However, I would never have believed that I would experience what I am about to relate, especially not at such an early stage in the treatment – the second session.

Since I was a child, I have suffered from separation anxiety that stemmed mainly from something that happened when I was ten and half.

I told my story to Chava while really identifying with it, and afterwards we worked on it. When we finished that part of the treatment, Chava asked me to relate the story again in a few sentences to see if there were any matters left that we had not dealt with – and I could not understand what was happening to me.

I was unable to tell the story since I felt that it was not mine, that I was seeing it from a distance and that I didn’t identify with it in the way as I had just a few minutes previously. It was as though I knew the details of the story, but it was not mine any longer and that what had happened had not happened to me and did not affect me any more.

The feelings of peace and release from the separation anxiety and the terrible story were wonderful and accompany me since that treatment.

Thank you, Hashem, and thank you Chava for being His emissary, for helping His creatures to release their innermost pain and to live more healthy lives.

Lilach.


Panic and anxieties took over my life.

I was in such a terrible state

Shalom,

I would like to tell you about my experiences with TAT and the treatment so that everyone can get to know about Eliezer and TAT.

I probably experienced a number of traumas over the years, the result of which took over my life.

I would suffer anxiety attacks in any situation, and I lost my self-confidence, I could not run my life properly because of the fears that constantly took over.

I would get attacks in closed places: on the train, on the bus. A new job would cause an attack. I was afraid to go to the synagogue and up be called up to the Torah because of the anxieties that would take over.

Panic took over my life. I was in such a terrible state. Almost everywhere I went or in anything I did I was overcome by anxiety, heart palpitations and terrible thoughts. I was convinced that I was going crazy and lived in constantly fear.

I finally decided that I have to take charge of the situation. Previously I had tried pills and the treatment was successful, but years later the anxiety attacks returned I tried psychiatric help but nothing gave me peace of mind or the perfect balance to be able to deal with life.

I decided to look for something different, something real without experimental chemicals or any other kind of medicine.

After searching and lots of reading, I suddenly I found a technique about which I had not heard before, a technique called TAT, that can help get rid of anxieties. I read the information online and also stories written by people who had used it. The one thing that I was looking for and did not find was about people who were not satisfied with the treatment. It seemed as though everyone who had experienced TAT was happy with it, and I told myself, “That’s it. I am going to do TAT.

I came to Eliezer, a very nice man who gives one a sense of security. After the first treatment I was still very mixed up, but I felt positive energy and release. After the second treatment, I noticed that I was waiting for anxiety — which did not arrive. I decided to go to places where I knew I would get panic attacks, and wonder of wonders – nothing! I worked with Eliezer on everything that bothered me and today I am free of it all. I live a balanced life, no fears or anxiety, I do what I want to do, my self-confidence has returned and closed places do not bother me any more. I am not afraid to go to the synagogue because I have overcome my fears, and now I have a tool – TAT helps me in everything that may prevent me from living a normal and peaceful life.

Baruch Hashem, and many thanks to Eliezer who healed me through TAT.


My engagement was broken off , I began to suffer from anxiety attacks.

Three years ago, a little before Yom Kippur, my engagement was broken off. Immediately after Yom Kippur, I began to suffer from anxiety attacks – just like that. I felt that I could not breathe, that I had no control over what was happening. My breathing was heavy and my body shook. I began to vomit due to the pressure building up in my stomach. I thought that G-d forbid, I was going to die.

I was so scared. I didn’t know what to do with myself. Nothing I did to try to calm myself helped. A friend took me out and tried to divert my attention, which helped a little, but I was still very upset and did not know what to do with myself. I must add here that I am a religious girl from a normative family. I would never have dreamed that I deserved something like this, but it just shows that anything can happen, especially the unexpected.

The next day, I went to see a rabbanit, one of the greatest women alive. She told me that what I had experienced was an anxiety attack, and that probably half of the population suffers from them. She explained the symptoms and how to deal with them. She really helped me. (The first therapist I went to told me that it is rare that one realizes what the problem is so quickly) There is no doubt that I was extremely fortunate in this case, even though I felt that I was living in in darkness for the next three years; I went through very hard times, I changed a lot and grew up a lot. I was stuck on many levels, had no ambition, and what was most frightening was that I could not envision a future for myself since I was scared that I was going to die.

For the first few weeks I refused to go to a psychiatrist since I tend towards alternative medicine and do not believe in pills. I was at complete loss. Thank G-d, my sister searched the internet and found a therapist who worked in a technique called TAT. I was very skeptical, but on the other hand, what did I have to lose? I began treatment, and from the first session I felt an improvement. Something changed within a few minutes. It was magical. I had tried so many different techniques over the years, but had never experienced such a rapid change. As I said, I am very skeptical, and therefore did not believe in TAT at the beginning. I moved on slowly, step by step.

I felt better after each treatment. Over the course of the treatments, the therapist explained about anxieties and gave me encouragement. Slowly but surely, the anxieties left me. I have nothing but gratitude for this therapist who basically saved my life.

About a year after the treatment, I felt that I had found the root of my problems, and that I needed a woman to treat me. I stopped the treatments for about a year and a half since I felt that I could manage of my own, but there was still something left. The more tense I became, the more I felt dragged into dark places, and at times I still felt tension similar to beforehand, but not as intense. I decided that I needed help again, and this time found Chava Spetter. As soon as we met, I felt a special connection with her: I felt that she was a mentor, and the treatments were amazing, deep and so beneficial. We are now a few months after the treatments, and I am in a completely different place. I work and study, and am now brave enough to go out on dates. I have a positive, optimistic outlook on life and my future, and even if I get tense or have an anxious moment, I am able to take care of it – all with the help of TAT.

Words cannot describe the difference between today and three years ago. TAT saved me when I thought that nothing would help, when I thought that all was lost. People told me that this was something that couldn’t be cured completely, and I would have to live with it, but TAT proved otherwise. Chava proved this and so did haShem. They showed me that I could heal completely and that everything is possible.Rabbi Nachman of Breslav said, “There is no despair in the world” and if you believe, you will find what you are searching for. Believe that you will also find what you are searching for, you can escape from misery, even if now it seems impossible. It will happen.

Thank you, dearest Chava, thank you TAT, thank you Hashem. I am now studying TAT so that I, too, can help others and give them hope. With G-d’s help we will succeed.


Shalom Chavah,

Here is a testimonial of Chava’s TAT program, as promised:

“I have truly seen the benefits of TAT. Not only do I walk out of a session feeling great, but it is helped me disconnect my negative thoughts between sessions as well. Chava is a very sweet and caring lady and has helped me realize that I can leave all my past thinking behind me, and live a worry free lifestyle. She has given me tools that I can use the rest of my life, and I am grateful for the opportunity I had to work with her.”

Thank you! See you Chava on Sunday at 3pm.

L’chaim,


anxiety attacks

Dear Eliezer,

It has taken me a long time to write this letter. Better late than never because now I can thank you twice over!

My 19 year old daughter began to get have anxiety attacks and her condition become so bad that she could not get out of bed in the morning and have a normal life.

Hashem works in wonderful ways, and a friend suggested I contact Eliezer. I must admit that we were very skeptical at first; we could not believe that by saying a few sentences things everything would be fine, but we decided to give the treatment a chance. After a few sessions my daughter began to feel better hotels but there were still ups and downs, yet after a total of ten sessions, my daughter was completely cured and able to return to normal life with renewed vigor and joy that she had not had before.

Thanks to Hashem and his faithful emissary, Eliezer Spetter and TAT, we were able to do away with medications and return to a normal way of life.



anxiety attacks

Dear Eliezer,

It has taken me a long time to write this letter. Better late than never because now I can thank you twice over!

My 19 year old daughter began to get have anxiety attacks and her condition become so bad that she could not get out of bed in the morning and have a normal life.

Hashem works in wonderful ways, and a friend suggested I contact Eliezer. I must admit that we were very skeptical at first; we could not believe that by saying a few sentences things everything would be fine, but we decided to give the treatment a chance. After a few sessions my daughter began to feel better hotels but there were still ups and downs, yet after a total of ten sessions, my daughter was completely cured and able to return to normal life with renewed vigor and joy that she had not had before.

Thanks to Hashem and his faithful emissary, Eliezer Spetter and TAT, we were able to do away with medications and return to a normal way of life.